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Even if you really, really want to

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Things I didn’t know then (but can tell you now)

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Sometimes following our (loving) instincts is wrong

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When rewards don’t work, try pairing

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I’m calling it pairing.


And one little trick to snap you out of thinking that way

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They’re inevitable in any relationship

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You could, but I wouldn’t recommend it

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And 3 better ways to improve your relationship instead

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Everyone can have them, but not everyone does

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Jennifer Haubrich

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